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		By: Susan/ohbejoyful		</title>
		<link>https://sorrywatch.com/an-acceptable-sorry-if-apology/#comment-2423</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Susan/ohbejoyful]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2013 23:32:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I read the entire statement in its original context. I found it offensive.

&#062;&#062;I was working crazy-hard and was SO TIRED!

Erm, no.  When you&#039;re crazy tired is when you often reveal what your core beliefs. 

The &quot;women are emotional and therefore lesser&quot; trope is something we fight against so often that *I&#039;m* crazy tired, and it&#039;s only Thursday.  There were not one, but THREE &quot;if you feel&quot; phrases in his original statement.  Women&#039;s feelings can&#039;t be trustsed; we might &quot;pop a round&quot; at somebody.  (The &quot;pop a round&quot; phrasing is also offensive to any serious gun owner - it&#039;s a cartoonish and dismissive phrase that does nothing to further serious discussion about firearm regulations.)

Using &quot;feeling&quot; language in a point aimed specifically aimed at women is going to get feminists upset. Reasonably so.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read the entire statement in its original context. I found it offensive.</p>
<p>&gt;&gt;I was working crazy-hard and was SO TIRED!</p>
<p>Erm, no.  When you&#8217;re crazy tired is when you often reveal what your core beliefs. </p>
<p>The &#8220;women are emotional and therefore lesser&#8221; trope is something we fight against so often that *I&#8217;m* crazy tired, and it&#8217;s only Thursday.  There were not one, but THREE &#8220;if you feel&#8221; phrases in his original statement.  Women&#8217;s feelings can&#8217;t be trustsed; we might &#8220;pop a round&#8221; at somebody.  (The &#8220;pop a round&#8221; phrasing is also offensive to any serious gun owner &#8211; it&#8217;s a cartoonish and dismissive phrase that does nothing to further serious discussion about firearm regulations.)</p>
<p>Using &#8220;feeling&#8221; language in a point aimed specifically aimed at women is going to get feminists upset. Reasonably so.</p>
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		By: Chuck Karish		</title>
		<link>https://sorrywatch.com/an-acceptable-sorry-if-apology/#comment-2409</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2013 18:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The first paragraph quoted here wasn&#039;t a non-apology apology. It wasn&#039;t an apology at all. He was standing behind the point he had been trying to make.

If one thinks that the problem was that Salazar expressed himself inexpertly, the &quot;I was tired&quot; excuse should be acceptable. It would be different if he had let slip a comment that revealed an attitude that he should have kept hidden.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first paragraph quoted here wasn&#8217;t a non-apology apology. It wasn&#8217;t an apology at all. He was standing behind the point he had been trying to make.</p>
<p>If one thinks that the problem was that Salazar expressed himself inexpertly, the &#8220;I was tired&#8221; excuse should be acceptable. It would be different if he had let slip a comment that revealed an attitude that he should have kept hidden.</p>
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